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Olajumoke Oyaleke

11 Clear Signs She is a keeper 

Dating Tips For Men

Have you ever heard guys say things like she’s for the keeps or she is a keeper? Yeah, guys know when they have met the one. We all have qualities that we want our partners to have and when you finally find that one person who has these qualities, it feels like you have won the jackpot.

So what does it mean for someone to be a keeper? It means that a guy believes that the woman has all the desired qualities he wants in a woman and this makes her a deserving person to be in a relationship with.

It’s true that there’s a woman for every man but some guys don’t even know it when they have met the right woman. They don’t know when they have met a keeper; they only start to regret it, possibly when they have lost the person.

This is why it might not be totally wrong when sometimes some people say you only know the value of what you have until you have lost that thing. Only when some guys have lost someone who is a keeper do they realize that they have not made the best decision.

But you don’t have to lose what you have before you know its value. It’s true that you can not tell people what to do or who to be with but we will look at the signs she is a keeper to help you know the qualities you should be looking for in a woman.

Signs She is a Keeper

1. She forgives easily

The ability of a woman to easily forgive can be one of the signs she is a keeper. She has a forgiving spirit and is always ready to put things at peace and settle things out with you when you apologize. That type of woman is someone you should keep and never let go of. This is because this type of woman brings peace and you are sure that anytime you have any form of misunderstanding with her, she will be ready to forgive you.

When a woman is able to easily forgive in a relationship, it’s one of the things that fosters a relationship. Also, it’s a sign of a woman who loves you and you should keep a woman who genuinely loves you especially if you also feel the same way about her.

2. She respects you

A woman who treats you with kindness and consideration and makes you feel valued will make a good partner. You deserve to be with a lady who respects and loves you, a woman who acknowledges your feelings and opinions.

This is one of the signs she is a keeper, because this is one of the fundamental qualities that partners should have for a healthy relationship to be established, leading to a lasting relationship. So a lady who is respectful is someone with whom you should be considering a long-term relationship if you are really hoping to have one.

3. She is fun to be with

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One of the signs she is a keeper is that she is fun to be with. Someone with whom you enjoy her presence and company. She is lively, cheerful and humorous. You are always looking forward to spending time with her because she knows how to make you feel happy. She knows how to cheer you up, even when you are feeling unhappy.

This is a sign that this kind of lady is going to bring happiness and so much laughter into your life. Also, shared laughter helps build strong emotional connections in a relationship. It’s key to building a healthy relationship.

4. She is honest

I guess one of the important qualities that one should look for in a woman is honesty. Any woman who always tells you the truth and doesn’t keep things from you is someone that any guy should keep. This is because it gives you a sense of security and transparency, which are important for a healthy relationship.

5. She trusts you

Firstly, it’s important for us to understand that trust between partners is very important in any relationship. A relationship that can stand the test of time is one that is built on mutual trust and respect. If a woman trusts you, it means that she believes in you, believes in your judgment and integrity and considers you someone that she can rely on.

Having a woman who believes in you gives you a sense of security and peace. It allows you to become open and vulnerable to her because it gives you a sense that you are in a safe place. If you are looking for signs she is a keeper, one of the things you should be looking for is this: you can only have the support of any woman if she trusts and believes in you. And don’t we all want a partner who believes in and supports us?

6. She listens to you

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Having a partner who actively listens encourages understanding in a relationship. When a woman listens to you, it is a sign that she is attentive to your needs and pays attention to every little detail that concerns you.

She doesn’t forget anything that concerns you because you are important to her. Also, by listening, she is taking note of the little changes in you through your actions, even without telling her and this will help her show you empathy and support. Not only this, she also does not disregard your advice, thoughts and contributions concerning important issues.

All of these are signs she is a keeper. This is a positive attitude that will not only help create a supportive environment in a relationship but also encourage mutual understanding and a nurturing atmosphere.

7. She is loyal

Do you know that when a lady is loyal and committed to you, she is a keeper? Oh, this is because when a woman decides to be committed to you, it’s because she values you and wants to have a serious relationship with you.

And just in case you may be unaware of the things that a loyal woman won’t do, she is not going to lie to you; a loyal woman is not going to cheat on you; she will support you and will always have your back. You can be sure that she will treat you with respect. If you are lucky enough to find a woman who is loyal, she’s for keeps, and it’s only fair for you to also be committed to her.

8. She inspires you

A woman who inspires you is a woman who pushes you to be a better person and become a better version of yourself. A woman who is inspiring is someone who is ambitious, passionate about her goals and focused on self-development.

She doesn’t settle for less and she aspires to always become better at everything she does. She has unique and outstanding traits; she is confident and believes in herself. These qualities will encourage a man to feel inspired, aim to achieve more and also make him believe in himself.

9. She respects boundaries

If you think she has all the qualities you want and she doesn’t respect boundaries, there will be a lot of issues in the relationship because she will constantly do so many things that will come to you as unacceptable.

A lady who doesn’t know how to respect boundaries lacks understanding and consideration. It means she won’t consider your needs and respect you because she doesn’t respect boundaries. This will eventually cause a lot of misunderstanding and conflict in the relationship.

In order to prevent this from happening, it’s important to be with an understanding woman who is going to respect boundaries. A woman who accepts you for who you are and understands limits. This is important for the emotional safety of the relationship.

10. She shares the same interest with you

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Having shared interests with your partner promotes a strong emotional connection between two people because it means that both partners can spend time doing the things they both enjoy doing.

This is healthy for a relationship, as it will help you bond more and spend quality time together. It shows that she values the things you value. And being with this person means that you can have an enjoyable and fulfilling relationship with her.

11. Your family likes her

Last on the list of signs she is a keeper is when your family likes her. If she has met your family or your friends and they have something positive to say about her, it is a sign that she is a good lady because your family will always want the best for you. If everyone likes her and they even encourage you to be serious with her, it shows that she is a keeper.

Conclusion

What are the things you want in a woman? If you can answer this question honestly and are realistic about the qualities you want in a woman, you’ll be able to tell if she is a keeper.

Also, the signs that have been listed are very important qualities and traits that a woman you are planning to settle with should have because, as we know, getting married to someone is one of the greatest decisions that someone will make in life, especially when you are going to spend the most part of your life with the person. All of the qualities above will help in building a sustainable and lasting relationship built on trust, love and respect.

 

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